We spend a majority of our lives as survivors with no clue what we are actually surviving. To protect us, our brains have frozen in time the incidents fueling our ability to be in denial.
Unfortunately, the truth of our sexual abuse seeps out into all areas of our lives, causing us to behave like maligned versions of our true selves. We yell, when we are not yellers. We cheat, when we want love. We drink and abuse drugs when we want to see God.
Only through facing the denial do we find our true selves hidden in the cobwebs.
Book Coach to Best Sellers, Kim O'Hara, had to face her demons stemming from sexual abuse before she could fully step into her flourishing career as a coach, podcaster, author, and speaker. A former movie producer and screenwriter, she lived in a fantasy fiction world fueled by drugs, alcohol, rage, and shame. Today she is a respected writer and coach in her field, and an advocate to anyone repressing sexual abuse to speak out.
Kim lives in Los Angeles, California.